In this teachings, Dr. Charles Stanley highlighted that the purpose of trials is not to destroy us but to develop our character and strengthen our faith. He emphasizes that wisdom is the ability to see our circumstances from God's perspective and to respond according to biblical principles. Stanley urges believers to choose to benefit from hardships rather than becoming bitter. 

Stanley says trials, or adversity, are a tool that God uses for growth. While he acknowledges that God does not cause all suffering, he asserts that God intends for us to profit from every difficulty we face. The purposes of trials include: 
Testing and proving faith. Trials reveal the true state of our faith, showing us where our level of trust in God stands.
Building character. When faced with persecution and difficulty, we have the opportunity to grow closer to Christ and become more like him.

Purifying our lives. Pain has a purifying effect, as God uses it to work on our hearts.
Equipping for service. After God has carried us through our own suffering, we are better equipped to comfort and help others in their afflictions.

Displaying God's strength. In our most impossible situations, God can demonstrate his awesome power if we are willing to listen. 

Stanley highlights that during trials, we have a choice: we can either choose to become better or become bitter. This decision is crucial for spiritual growth. 

Becoming bitter. Responding with bitterness, resentment, and hostility towards God or others will cause us to miss the positive lesson and purpose behind the trial.

Becoming better. Seeking to learn and benefit from the trial will lead to spiritual growth and development. 
Discerning and responding with godly wisdom

Wisdom is vital for navigating trials in a godly manner. A wise response involves discerning the source of the trial and understanding that if God has allowed it, there is a good purpose. Wise individuals maintain a hopeful outlook, possess inner calm, and seek to grasp what God is accomplishing. Stanley suggests asking questions like, "Do I believe God loves me so deeply that he must be up to something good in my life?" to gain God's perspective. He also advises countering despair by affirming biblical truths, such as acknowledging that God controls the trial's timing and intensity and has a specific purpose for it.